Making friends with your brain
Why You Know Exactly What To Do But Still Can't Start
You have the list. You know the first step. An hour later you still have not started, and there is a real reason why. It has nothing to do with laziness.
Part 5: Harnessing Hyperfocus Without Burning Out
ADHD hyperfocus can feel like a superpower: deep focus, ideas flowing, incredible output. But there's a cost that comes after. This post explains why it happens, why it's so hard to stop, and how to work with it without paying quite so much.
Part 4: Why Do I Start Things and Not Finish Them?
You started so well. That’s the part that makes stopping feel even harder. For many adults with ADHD, the energy to begin is real, it’s what comes next that’s the problem. Here’s what’s actually happening, and why it isn’t about effort.
Part 3: Procrastination, Perfectionism and ADHD
You’ve been meaning to start that thing for three weeks. You want to do it. And yet. Procrastination with ADHD isn’t about willpower, it’s something much more specific, and once you understand what’s actually happening in your brain, it starts to make a different kind of sense.